“BUT, sometimes, quite often, when the baby cries a lot the man gets frustrated and leaves the baby and the lady that had the baby.He sticks his fingers in his ears and pretends that the baby isn’t really there, he stops answering his phone when the lady calls. The lady gets very sad and feels very alone and angry and even though she loves her baby more than anything .....
“So to all the Pro Lifers spamming me with s***. This is one of the many reasons I believe a woman should have a right to choose. The end. She wonders what her life might have been like if she had never had the baby in the first place.”
Wow. Guess what? The free abortion makes such frustrated men an excuse for abandoning the lady. First of all, there are a lot who foresee themselves as being frustrated, and they leave before the birth and say "you can abort, I not going to be a father". Second of all, the social acceptance of those mores (the more you get of such jerks doing that without telling anyone except close friends, the more people are close friends with such jerks), the ongoing but tacit social acceptance of that bad morality opens a lot of doors for men to leave after the baby is born.
Two more things do: girls who feel no shame to surrender virginity before marriage, and, what Tolkien regretted but CSL supported, no-fault divorce. If men cannot get laid without a wedding ring, and if weddings are not often revoked, then the single mother households are far fewer, since these mothers would not be single. As simple as that.
But abortion adds murder to the "possible solutions" for a situation that should not have arisen in the first place and would not have arisen in the first place if other modernity mongers hadn't tampered with laws and morality the past one hundred years or so.
People coming from or currying favour to such rich as who would reduce human population to 500 million and who were finding ways to divorce and abort when poorer people couldn't.
Paris, La Clairière
St Bennett's Day
PS, the title refers to my lack of knowledge of contemporary colloquial English. I am not English you see, but Swedish. Another heavily abortionist country these days alas, and one I had to leave in the end because of evil doctors tampering with my folks' liberties, mainly because we were anti-abortionist. An anecdote from the years before I left Sweden: a thirteen year old girl tried for five weeks to say I'm keeping my baby - against boyfriend, against parents, against siblings, against school teachers ... after five weeks she agreed. I do not consider her a murderer, I do consider her surroundings unpunished murderers. And herself as pushed into pseudoresponsability for finally by exhaustion agreeing to the murder, which legally only she could agree to.